From the moment Mentoring Matches arrived, they were welcomed into a warm, mixer-style environment. As they enjoyed catching up and sipping sparkling cider, volunteers passed butternut squash soup shooters and pomegranate caprese skewers.

As Matches mingled, Mulvaney’s Co-owner Bobbin and Hospitality Manager Laurie began a warm and approachable etiquette lesson—sharing practical life skills on navigating social situations, starting conversations, and what to do when you’re unsure where to put a used skewer or cup. They also introduced both open and assigned seating customs, then guided Matches to beautifully set tables thanks to linens and place settings from Mulvaney’s.

The semi-formal 4-course meal flowed seamlessly, with pre-set harvest salads next. As the meal progressed, Bobbin demystified common dining questions (“Which glass is mine?” “What’s all this silverware for?” “Is it OK to reach for the bread?”), offering reassurance and real-world advice. Before entrees were served, Bobbin had shared the necessary tips on what to expect during more formal dining experiences, leaving time for Matches to simply enjoy the rest of the meal and one another’s company. Entrées of rotisserie chicken or a meatless applewood sausage, paired with creamy mashed potatoes and green beans, were then served. Dessert, of course, was pumpkin pie.

One mentee said, “…that was some of the best food I’ve ever had!”

This special gathering was made possible by a grant from Save Mart CARES Foundation. Save Mart store 623 on Kiefer Blvd. also generously provided the ingredients and collaborated with our Program Team to design a menu that was both tasty and easy to prepare.

After dinner, the celebration continued with raffle prizes, casual games of pool, and plenty of laughter and conversation. Watching our youth build genuine friendships with one another is one of the most rewarding parts of our community—and this gathering was full of those moments.

Friendsgiving was a joyful success, and we are excited to make it an annual tradition. Our heartfelt thanks to everyone who helped make it a meaningful and memorable experience.

For youth from foster care and individuals with similar experiences, the holidays can trigger sadness, disappointment and seclusion. Many may yearn for a sense of belonging as they face the season without the support and stability others seemingly take for granted.

This is why connection matters. Caring gestures like active listening, offering genuine emotional support, or simply being present can make a meaningful difference to someone who may be struggling.

Be part of our caring community this holiday season by supporting youth from foster care in one of these five impactful ways:

– Host a Holiday Gift Card Drive: Organize a drive to collect gift cards for local retail and grocery stores or restaurants. Gift cards give youth the sense that someone cares and allows them to choose something personal, boosting their autonomy.

– Volunteer Your Time: Discover what it takes to become a mentor or offer your skills in other ways. Opportunities include helping at events, organizing fundraising or supply drives, utilizing your expertise to lead workshops for our teens, or consulting with our staff.

– Invest Financially: Make a special donation any time during this season. Your investment provides holiday hope, mentorship and essential services. Every dollar counts!

– Request Gifts in Your Honor: When loved ones ask what you want this holiday season, let them know they can donate on your behalf. You will receive a card, and everyone will gain a feel-good gift!

– Give from Our Amazon Wish List: Purchase items for teens or needed program supplies from our wish list, and they’ll be sent directly to us on your behalf.

Your involvement—whatever special way that may be—can bring light to youth from foster care by creating a more inclusive and compassionate holiday season. Join us in ensuring that youth who deserve it most feel valued, seen and celebrated.

If you’re ready to make a difference this holiday season, contact Communications Director April at april@agingup.org to inquire about ways to invest in our mission.