One of our mantras is it’s all about relationships. As a one-to-one mentoring organization, the coronavirus pandemic creates challenges in maintaining relationships with the youth from foster care whom we serve. To help mentors during this time, we shared interactive ways to engage during social distancing.
We know the challenges of social distancing are not unique to us, so we’re sharing 7 tips to help you better connect with the tweens and teens in your life. While smartphones and other digital technologies offer easier ways to connect, not all of these ideas require a device.
1. Go to the movies – virtually
Mail microwave popcorn and some goodies with an invitation to watch a movie. You can use Netflix Party to watch and chat live through your computer. Or, simply plan to watch the same movie or binge the same show and chat about it after.
2. Have a no-sew t-shirt design challenge
You may want to ask their parent first, but old t-shirts can easily be upcycled into new styles. Now is a great time to look through drawers and closets. To help decide what stays and what goes, you can download the Ultimate Closet Detox Guide by our friend Carly of Tidy Revival and Simplified Wardrobe. But, before you get rid of t-shirts, consider easy alterations that will make you like wearing them again. Invite your young person to also alter t-shirts. There are plenty of tutorials online. We like this video of various crop top and summer-style designs or this video to create a muscle tank. Once your shirts are created, you can text photos or hold a video fashion show to share your designs.
3. Go on a scavenger hunt
With few places to go, a walk around the neighborhood can be a refreshing change of scene. Of course, seeing the same things can get boring. Why not send a list of things to find (metal mailbox, gnome, lemon tree, etc.) or use Shutterfly’s Neighborhood Scavenger Hunt? You and your young person can snap photos of the items to send to one another or just have fun searching for them.
4. Create art with natural elements
Depending on available supplies, like glue, paint, markers, etc., you can help exercise creativity and self-expression by inspiring your young person to make art with elements found outdoors. From painting rocks to drying out flowers and arranging them on paper, canvas or in a frame, there are many possibilities. You might also create an inspirational piece to mail or deliver as a gift. Just remember, these elements should be gathered from parks and public areas (not your neighbor’s yard – unless permission is given).
5. Hold a virtual game night
With free video chat services like Zoom or Google Hangouts, you can play games together, even though you may be miles apart. This article from Elite Daily offers tips on which games to play and how to make it work well.
6. Drop off a care package
You may not be able to hang out, but you can leave a package of fun on their doorstep. Items like puzzles, art supplies, books, movies, treats, funny comics, etc., will be a welcomed surprise.
7. Practice and encourage self-care
The stress and emotional toll of sheltering in place can be draining for people of all ages. You can brighten your young person’s mood with texts or calls of funny jokes, memories or questions like “what is one thing you’re excited about today?” it’s important to make mental well-being a focus by setting aside personal time, prioritizing healthy choices, practicing self-compassion, and enjoying activities. Calm offers free meditations, calming music and other resources to support emotional wellness.
Social distancing doesn’t mean disconnecting. We hope these tips help you connect with the special young people in your life.
